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When Life Puts You in a Time Out.

Benched.  That is how I feel.  I am watching from the sidelines and the game is still being played without me... I have never sat out in my entire career.

I had surgery a little over a week ago and I have been down for the count with 10 or more days to go ( Yes, I am ok ).  After quitting the pain meds a few days ago, reality and clarity really set in, along with the silence.

Reality - I need help.  I can't do it all by myself.  For those of you who know me, know that I rarely ask for help.  It isn't because I think I am too good to ask or that I think I am invincible. It is how I was raised.  I grew up being taught that you never waste time complaining and that you just do things yourself.  Just sitting here and recovering has been hard. I have had to let go of the dishes in the sink, the messy living room, and dirty floor.  My teen kiddos have really stepped up and have been taking care of things, basically waiting on me hand and foot.  They are realizing how much I actually d…

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